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Monday, April 23, 2007
Monday, April 23, 2007

the third journal...

Changing Times


Summary

Changing times; the writer wants the society to change their mind regarding the gender stereotyping as the economic and social changes. Long time ago, little girls were raise to be good wives and mothers, they are warned not to be fat because they won’t find a husband, a perfect woman is described as looks great and doesn’t speak. While the little boys were raised to be breadwinners and the perfect man are who takes charge and sort out problems with their fists. Ironically, all of these have changed! Women are preferred to have tertiary education and a career rather than staying at home being housewives. And men nowadays, they don’t mind to cook by themselves and taking care of their children. So, in this article, the writer wants the society to stop this gender stereotyping before it’s creating more and more problems.

Reflection

By reading this we can see that the writer is completely biased against the gender stereotyping. He wants to persuade people to stop the gender stereotypes by writing this article. He criticized a lot the way people discriminate females and males in life. He also included a data based on a survey conducted on life expectancy at birth, literacy rates and standard of living as measured by gross domestic product (GDP) per capita at purchasing power parity (PPP) in US dollars where Malaysia has being ranked as the 61st country. Perhaps, is this matter of gender stereotypes, males and females are being contrasted is this article. He also discussed about the causes and the effects of gender stereotypes in our society.
So, for this reflection, I want to stress more on the cause and the effects of gender stereotyping. It has started long ago without us realising it. From the way our parents raised us until nowadays which made the society still look down on the ability of women. Everything, the boys or men will become the priority. While girls are being left out in anything they are supposed to get. It's about the right that has given no equality since the old day until now. Even though our country is developing, but our mind is still not changed. As the economic and social has changed, we should also realize that things cannot be the same for everything. We can see that nowadays education is not limited, regardless gender. However, when it comes to a certain job field such as engineering we can see there is still the limit and the gap of number between man and woman who work there. This is all about the acceptance and the perception of people toward the ability of women. That's just one case, there are another cases that involve not only women but also men.
By this traditional thinking and practices, they are actually giving a lot of negatives effect either to women and also men. According to the writer, enforcing traditional male and females stereotypes is actually encourages violent behavior in men. Why? Because they are unable to accept that their wife or girlfriend are more educated, higher position or higher salary than themselves. And this is due to the traditional thinking that they have usually do and being put to and plus, the perspective of the society too gave an effect of this violent behavior. Men might feel embarrassed for the situation he's in and have the low self estimates for themselves and latter they will express their feelings in vicious ways.
It also discourages individuals from pursuing certain activities in which they might have excelled. As for just now I gave an example from women sides in engineering career, let’s look on the men sides. Perhaps all of us can see that it is now that the most succeed chefs and fashion designers in Malaysia are men, but still they probably had being once insulted or being inhibited to be in their career initially. Only now, people are more admit that people as in man and woman are not only should do what they are supposed to do. But still, our society needs a long time to realize and accept that.
Beside that, gender stereotypes can also creates communication gap between male and female. How? Let us take an example from school. Still, the tradition thinking made the boys became the class monitor while girls are the assistant monitor. Even the boy is not good enough compare to the girl, boys names will still being nominated for class monitor. In co-curriculum itself, has created the communication rift between the students. Boys scout, girls scout and there are a lot more situations that actually we didn’t realize that we are also involved in stereotyping the gender. Even though the government claims that they are prohibit the discrimination on basis gender, but the truth is it’s happened because of the rules they implement themselves, and it’s still continuing. So, let us together strive to eliminate gender stereotyping completely before it’s too late because I believe that is the obligation of all of us.